Many
orphans grow up with lingering feelings of not belonging to anyone or
to anything (i.e., a work environment, a relationship, a family). There
is a strong desire to be accepted. There is also a sense of separation,
of longing - always searching for an identity rather than being labeled
an orphan - an outcast. Yet, there are many orphans who have not
allowed these feelings to guide their lives. These orphans have learned
to understand and accept who they are. And, they in turn, have reached
out and helped others in some small way or some large way. They have
not hidden behind the label. Those orphans who are making a difference
are the Mentor Orphans.
It must be noted that not all orphans have a tragic life. Some have been lucky. Some have been adopted by loving families. These families have shown them what love is all about - they have opened their hearts. I want to take a moment and applaud these families for the love and the opportunities they've offered. Many have sacrificed to help those orphans that needed a home, security and most of all love.
Kitoleko, a 12yr old, was found while picking wastes (food) from the dump. And when we talked to him, he lamented "I am not a mad person, I'm a normal person like you, except that this misfortune has befallen me, and I can't eat decent food."
He revealed that he does not remember when he had a decent meal cooked in pots and not the tins they use to cook their meals.
"I also look forward to sleeping on a bed, comfortably with good bedding. Not on the sacks that we sleep on." He complained of the cold in those trenches he slept on the rainy days. Kitoleko is responsible for over six siblings who are below 10 years.